Professional Coaching for Principals and School Leaders

Sharper decisions. Better conversations. Leadership that lasts. Confidential coaching with registered psychologist

Why this, why now

Being a principal is one of the most demanding leadership roles in this country.

Principals and senior school leaders carry the weight of their school community: the staff, the tamariki, the whānau, the board. Yet dedicated time for your own reflection and development is often the first thing to slip.

The hard part is rarely the workload. It is who you take the difficult calls to. The board is your employer, not your confidant. Your senior team are people you lead, not people you can think out loud with. Peer principals are valuable, and not the same as a clinically trained outsider who is paid to listen.

Critical incidents. Board friction. Staff conduct. Mid-career questions about whether you still want to be doing this. None of those land well in the same conversations as your strategic plan.

This is the gap professional coaching is built to fill.

Trusted by leaders in high-demand roles

ACC
NZ Police
The Judiciary
MBIE
Kāinga Ora
Malaghan Institute
The offer

What we provide.

Professional coaching is recognised as best practice for leaders in high-responsibility, people-focused roles. It provides a regular, protected space to reflect on your practice, receive honest feedback, and develop the skills that make the biggest difference.

In concrete terms: confidential one-to-one sessions with a registered psychologist. You set the agenda. Most school leaders settle into 50-minute sessions every three to four weeks. What is said in the session stays in the session. Your board does not see session content. Your staff do not see session content.

In acknowledgement of the work you do for our tamariki, we want to support you. We’re offering school leaders a complimentary first coaching session: an opportunity to experience what dedicated, professional support can do for you and your school. Available over the next three months.

Our approach

Practical, evidence-based, plainly delivered.

We take psychological concepts and make them practical. Every conversation leads to something you can actually do: not theory, not generic advice, but tools and strategies you’ll use tomorrow.

Practical tools, not just talk

Each session gives you something concrete to work with. We focus on what helps, not what sounds good.

Evidence-based, plainly delivered

We’re registered psychologists, not consultants with opinions. Our approach is grounded in research and translated into language that makes sense.

Change you can measure

We help you identify the shifts that matter and track progress over time. Real change, not just reflection.

Tailored to your context

Your school is unique. We take time to understand your challenges, your team, and what success looks like for you.

How it works

Three steps. Principal-led.

1

Choose your coach

Browse our team of registered psychologists. Read their backgrounds. Pick the one whose experience fits what you need. If you’d rather a recommendation than browse, give us a call.

2

Book your free first session

An hour with the coach you chose, at no cost, with no obligation. A real first session, not a sales call.

3

Continue, if it’s a fit

If you and your coach are a good match, sessions begin within two to three weeks of the free session. You set the agenda from there.

Tangible outcomes

What principals experience through coaching.

Deeper reflective insight

  • Space to step back from the day-to-day
  • Clearer perspective on challenging staff, student and whānau situations
  • Stronger alignment between your values and your decisions

Enhanced leadership effectiveness

  • Greater confidence in difficult conversations
  • Improved boundary-setting and delegation
  • Clearer thinking in times of pressure or change

Improved personal wellbeing

  • Reduced stress and emotional load
  • Support for managing fatigue and work-life balance
  • A safe space to process the weight of leadership

Stronger school culture

  • More emotionally available leadership
  • Healthier staff relationships and modelling of wellbeing
  • Sustainable leadership over time
What people are saying

In their own words.

“I felt seen, heard and supported. I didn’t realise how important this was.”

“It helped me move into a healthier and happier place, with a renewed sense of what’s possible.”

“The strategies I learned are still in use. They help ground me and focus on what’s right in front of me.”

Funding and board approval

Built for the way principals are actually funded.

If you are a principal, your professional coaching entitlement is built for exactly this kind of work. The form below produces a personalised, board-ready Word document you can hand to your presiding member. About a minute to complete. Detailed answers on collective-by-collective funding mechanics, OAG audit safety, and board approval are in the Q&A below.

Download the form

Generate your application form

Three fields. Personalised. Board-ready Word document downloads straight to your device.

For board chairs

A note for the presiding member.

If you are a presiding member reading this on behalf of your principal, your principal’s wellbeing now sits alongside health and safety as a board-level responsibility you are expected to be active about. The application form above cites the relevant clause of your principal’s collective agreement and gives you a clean paper trail you can adopt straight into your minutes.

Beyond principal coaching

We also support schools with.

Girls’ Group (ages 11 to 15)

Managing anxiety, building confidence, emotional regulation.

Supporting Better Sleep in Teens

Sleep education, stress management, device use.

Meeting Different Minds

Practical strategies for neurodiversity in the classroom.

Staff Wellbeing Support

Individual support for staff resilience and retention.

Common questions

What principals ask us.

Is the free first session really free?

Yes. One hour with the coach you chose, at no cost, with no obligation. Available over the next three months, one per principal or school leader.

How do I choose my coach?

You choose. Browse our team of registered psychologists, read their backgrounds, and book your free first session with the one whose experience fits what you need. If you would rather we recommend someone, give us a call on 0800 324 484.

Is the coaching confidential?

Yes. What is said in the session stays in the session. We do not report session content to your board, your staff, or your community. The standard professional exceptions apply: legal disclosure obligations, clear risk to self or others.

How long are sessions and how often?

Most school leaders settle into 50-minute sessions every three to four weeks. Some prefer fortnightly during a difficult patch. Some prefer six-weekly. You set the cadence.

What does it cost after the free session?

Our standard rate is $250 + GST per session. Most annual engagements run to about 12 sessions across the year, totalling around $3,000 + GST.

Can I use my professional coaching fund for this?

Yes. Professional coaching from a registered psychologist sits squarely inside the purpose of your entitlement. The mechanics differ by collective:

  • Secondary principals (SPCA 2025 to 2028, clause 4.4): $6,000 per annum tagged in operational funding for Professional Coaching and Wellbeing Support. Annual declaration to the board by the last day of Term 4.
  • Area school principals (ASPCA, clause 4.5): $6,000 per annum, same mechanics as SPCA.
  • Primary principals on PPCBU 2025 to 2028: five tranches of $3,000 across the term. Each tranche elected as Curriculum Change Allowance (paid to you) or PLD Fund (paid to your board, used in line with the Ministry’s Professional Development for Principal Leadership Criteria V2.0).
  • Primary principals on NZEI 2026 to 2028: $15,000 over the term as Curriculum Change Allowance, paid as five taxable allowances directly to you.

What about the OAG audit findings on the wellbeing fund?

The Office of the Auditor-General’s December 2025 report flagged 178 boards over how the Professional Coaching and Wellbeing Fund had been spent without a clear business purpose. The fund has not been removed. The bar for evidencing its use has been raised.

Professional coaching from a registered psychologist, charged at a standard professional rate, sits squarely inside the six sensitive expenditure principles in the OAG’s Controlling Sensitive Expenditure guide. The application form on this page makes that visible to your board on a single page.

Will my board approve it?

Most boards approve it, particularly when the application is presented in the structure recommended by the OAG. The form above does that work for you. If your presiding member would like to talk to one of our clinicians before approving, we can make that happen.

What if I’m a deputy principal or senior leader, not a principal?

The free first session is open to all school leaders. The funding mechanics above are principal-specific because the wellbeing entitlement is principal-tagged. The coaching work is the same regardless of role.

Are you on the Principal Development Map?

We are listed (or pending) on the Ministry of Education’s Principal Development Map under Professional Supports. This makes us an eligible provider for primary principals using the PPCBU PLD Fund.

Ready to invest in your leadership?

Book your complimentary first session.

No obligation: just a conversation about what support could look like for you.

Book your free session
0800 324 484  ·  contact@3bigthings.co.nz

Mind. Body. Environment.

Every day you support others.

Who's supporting you?

Principals carry the weight of their school community—the staff, the tamariki, the whānau, the board. Yet dedicated time for your own reflection and development is often the first thing to slip.

In acknowledgement of the work you do for our tamariki, we want to support you. We're offering school leaders a complimentary first coaching session—an opportunity to experience what dedicated, professional support can do for you and your school.

Professional coaching is recognised as best practice for leaders in high-responsibility, people-focused roles. It provides a regular, protected space to reflect on your practice, receive honest feedback, and develop the skills that make the biggest difference.

Our approach is grounded in psychology and focused on action. Every session leads to something practical—a clearer way of thinking about a problem, a strategy to try, a decision made. This isn't talk for the sake of talk. It's support that changes how you work.

Outcomes

  • Space to step back from the day-to-day. Clearer perspective on challenging staff, student, and whānau situations. Stronger alignment between your values and your decisions.

  • Greater confidence in difficult conversations. Improved boundary-setting and delegation. Clearer thinking in times of pressure or change.

  • Reduced stress and emotional load. Support for managing fatigue and work–life balance. A safe space to process the weight of leadership.

  • More emotionally available leadership. Healthier staff relationships and modelling of wellbeing. Sustainable leadership over time.

The Challenges You're Navigating

School leaders are managing more complexity than ever:

  • Supporting equity and access for all tamariki, regardless of background or location

  • Navigating teacher shortages and the pressure this places on your team

  • Meeting diverse learning and wellbeing needs with limited resources

  • Being the first point of contact for students and staff in distress

  • Leading increasingly diverse school communities with cultural responsiveness

These aren't problems to solve alone. They're ongoing leadership challenges that benefit from regular, confidential reflection with someone outside your immediate context.

Our Approach

We take psychological concepts and make them practical. Every conversation leads to something you can actually do—not theory, not generic advice, but tools and strategies you'll use tomorrow.

  • Practical tools, not just talk. Each session gives you something concrete to work with. We focus on what helps, not what sounds good.

  • Evidence-based, plainly delivered. We're registered psychologists, not consultants with opinions. Our approach is grounded in research and translated into language that makes sense.

  • Change you can measure. We help you identify the shifts that matter and track progress over time. Real change, not just reflection.

  • Tailored to your context. Your school is unique. We take time to understand your challenges, your team, and what success looks like for you.

  • Delivery: Sessions are delivered online, scheduled flexibly around your time. Confidential, supportive, and non-judgemental.

What people are saying

"I felt seen, heard and supported. I didn't realise how important this was."

"It helped me move into a healthier and happier place, with a renewed sense of what's possible."

"The strategies I learned are still in use—they help ground me and focus on what's right in front of me."

We're trusted by leaders across government, health, and community organisations:

NZ Police | The Judiciary | MBIE | Kāinga Ora | Malaghan Institute

We also support schools with

  • Managing anxiety, building confidence, emotional regulation

  • Sleep education, stress management, device use

  • Practical strategies for neurodiversity in the classroom

  • Individual support for staff resilience and retention

Ready to Invest in Your Leadership?

Book your complimentary first session. No obligation—just a conversation about what support could look like for you.